At this day and age, it’s sad to think that there are still a lot of women out there who think about attraction the old-fashioned way: that women are built to wait for men to approach them; or that in order to attract men, we have to focus a hundred-percent effort on our appearance. That is not how to attract men.
No matter what society has dictated, women are NOT just to sit and wait for a prince! Women were not made to stand at a tower or sleep in a beautiful coffin to wait for her knight in shining armor. And most importantly, women aren’t meant to kiss frogs.
And attraction is not prepping yourself up for the grand ball either only to wait to get noticed by the Prince either. Those are nothing but fairy tales to help us sleep at night.
But in the real world? It’s different in the real world. If women don’t wake up from the fairy tale dream soon and learn the truth on how to attract men, we might wake up to a tragedy.
Here’s the truth: you have to be proactive to attract a man. A woman has to realize that to attract a man, she needs to get up and do something about it.
Here’s the thing: women who complain about never getting approached are the ones who sit at the bleachers on prom night wondering about how their shoes were made. To get a guy to approach you, you have to look at them, at the very least because no matter how attracted a guy is to you, he won’t approach you until you give him the go signal.
A lot of women don’t know this about guys. The ones who always get approached are the ones who can give the go signal. As easy as that. When you enter a room, YOU have the power to choose who approaches you.
Look around you and find someone you’re interested in. Once you find the guy you like, glance at him every once in a while. Best if you look at him straight in the eyes. Make the glance more than fleeting but less than obvious. 3 seconds is fine. If you find him stealing glances amicably your way, chances are, he wants to approach you. Give him the go signal by smiling on your next glance. If he’s interested in you as well, he’ll approach you in no time!
And that is how to get approached by men: simple body language hints.
If you want to learn more about attracting men, you have to read Amy Waterman’s tips and courses on how to attract men. She’s one of the few out there who can give you a step-by-step guide on not just attracting a man, but attracting someone who’s right for you and keeping him for the long haul!